98% of the guys that hit on me either through Grindr, Manhunt, Gaydar or Scruff have boyfriends and are looking to “play” ( the other 1% are freaks and other 1% out of my league!) not only do I find this disgusting and offensive, it also continues to paint a bad picture of the gay lifestyle and the move towards the marriage debate. This is not going to be a long post today just a small rant! If you are reading this and you are in a committed relationship with someone that you love, you should be thankful everyday that you have someone and that you are happy. Stop thinking with your junk and use “we have needs” b/s excuses that I am so tired of hearing. Not only do you screw up your relationship but you also screw up single people and their affections as well.